Those of you who know us well know that the first three months of Savannah's life were VERY difficult. Our bundle of joy was perfect and we loved her immediately, but she had some medical problems that all started the third week of life. We had everything from conjunctivitis of the eye, an allergic reaction to something (we still don't know what) that covered half of her body, and a cephalahematoma of the head (which can be dangerous) that came back TWICE lasting a total of about seven weeks.
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| Side view of her cephalohematoma |
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| Poor little pumpkin! |
All of these were traumatic for new parents and of course a new baby; however, NOTHING could compare to GERD- gastroesophageal reflux disease. GERD is commonly referred to as acid reflux. During the midst of all of these medical problems that arose at the same time, Savannah started crying (really it was more like screaming) ALL day and night. I am not exaggerating- I literally mean for HOURS! Being new parents, we just thought that babies cry and that ours cried a lot. Then we started thinking, this can't be normal. For the first few weeks we thought it was a combination of colic and her other illnesses, but then we began to notice certain patterns. Feeding was an issue from the beginning, and instead of being content after a meal she would scream for at least an hour. She would arch her back and become as stiff as a board, and there were very few things that would comfort her. One of the funny things she found comforting was the 110+ outside temperature- luckily she was born in the prime of the Saudi heat. She also started spitting up frequently. Then frequently turned into constantly- at least 55-65 times a day (and again, no I'm not exaggerating). She started losing weight and we couldn't figure out how to get her gaining again. It was, in all seriousness, one of the most trying times of our lives to watch our child suffering and feel totally helpless and unable to do anything about it. This was all made worse by the fact that we were far from family in Saudi and were totally exhausted. At this point we were pretty sure that she had reflux, but it took us three different doctors here in Saudi and finally a doctor in the States to get her diagnosed and properly medicated. Her poor little esophagus was raw and every time she ate or spit up it was irritated again and again. THANK GOD FOR ZANTAC! Seriously! Within two weeks of getting her on the proper dosage it was like we had a totally different baby. She started smiling all of the time and playing. It was wonderful and we were so thankful that she was no longer suffering! Praise God! Unfortunately, the spitting up was still a part of our lives, but we were totally okay with it as long she wasn't hurting. It just became our new normal. Ten bibs a day, 5 or 6 burp cloths, 3 or 4 changes of clothes was our daily routine. She was the happiest little spitter in the compound, and we didn't go anywhere without extras of everything. :) In addition to zantac we also began "positioning" which is basically making sure your baby is constantly in a position to keep the reflux down. This involved keeping Savannah elevated at a thirty degree angle or more while she slept, keeping her propped up in an upright position for at least thirty minutes after every feeding, and keeping her upright as much as possible during the day. We did this until her little esophagus healed and she could tolerate different positions.
Around eight months we noticed that Savannah's spitting up seemed to be drastically improving, dropping to around 20-30 times a day. When she turned nine months it dropped to around 10 times a day. We are THRILLED to report that since she has turned ten months it is virtually gone! She is still "silently" refluxing because we can hear it and she chokes on it from time to time, but we no longer see it because it isn't coming completely up and out. We are hoping and praying that her little esophageal flap will continue to develop and that the "silent" reflux will completely be gone in the next few months. We are so thankful that even though she had a rough start, she is one of the happiest and now healthiest babies! Adios acid reflux!
Now, all of that explanation to get to another point. Savannah got almost no tummy time during the first three months of life because it would induce a reflux episode. Once we were finally able to start tummy time she absolutely hated it! As a result her gross motor skills were delayed; for instance, she was sitting up on her own before she was rolling over both ways. Not to worry, the doctor explained that this is very common in reflux babies and she would catch up. Her fine motor skills are actually ahead for her age. We accepted that Savannah would follow her own timeline for reaching milestones, but we have done everything in our power to encourage her with each next step.
Slowly but surely, tummy time got more bearable, and Savannah's reflux continued to get better. While we were at home for Savannah's surgery, she started army crawling. It's rather funny to watch because it looks like she is swimming across the floor. :) We were expecting Savannah to start "traditional" criss-cross crawling next, but since Savannah does things in her own order, she decided it was time to start pulling up instead. After that came cruising from furniture pieces and wanting to walk ALL THE TIME (I think my back will be stuck in the hunched position for a while). We love it! With all of this cruising, we were kind of expecting Savannah to just skip criss-cross crawling and just start walking in a few months, but again she decided to surprise us.
This afternoon she and I skyped with my parents, and after we hung up she started inching her way forward! I called Brent over because I was pretty sure she was about to crawl, and sure enough off she went. You could see it click in her brain- "This way is much faster!"- and the rest has been history! Of course, I had to grab my camera and get a few shots. Yay, Savannah!
We are proud of our little sweetheart and so excited to watch her grow and learn everyday! We love you Savannah, and the wonderful moments as well as the times of struggle have been totally worth it!